- its not petty to be sick of moc to be thirsty for white girls because white women are seen as the most beautiful in the media and we are constantly seeing it everywhere. Even in poc communities, our images are white washed. If its not the white woman that is desirable, it is the woc that fits into the ideal euro centric beauty standards.
- Its not petty when you are constantly being told you are inferior to white women in the media, and in your community
- Its not petty when you hear men of your own race go “I dont date __ girls because theyre bitchy, bossy, ghetto, loud, etc. White women on the other hand…” (because apparently white women have no faults of their own, and i have heard plenty of guys give that bs excuse when confronted on their streak of dating white women)
- And it certainly is not petty when these white girlfriends use their boyfriend as an excuse to be a racist piece of shit. “That wasn’t racist, my __ bf says that all the time.”
I think we all as woc have experienced this situations before at least once in our lives, and it really can be discouraging at times.These are things that i have experienced personally while dating within my community and interracially, and from what i’ve seen elsewhere. Please note that this does not mean that if you are automatically self hating if you are a man of color and you’re in a relationship with a white woman. There are plenty of healthy relationships between two people that came together because of love. However this problem is rampant in interracial relationships and it can’t be ignored. -e
All us older teens walking in to see HTTYD 2 in theatres and being like this to all the little kids there:
what do you mean, "teens". I’m an adult. I’ll be 25 years old when the movie premiers. I am six feet tall, and I am storming in like a boss.
So basically, all the adults pushing through the older teens like